We have 5 funerals this week. People put notices in the paper about someone's death, and say, "in lieu of flowers, please donate to ..." And I have to respond, while there are many worthy causes worth supporting, it's so sad when there are no flowers at a funeral, because the flowers are supposed to be there to comfort the living. Flowers are there to uplift everyone, and remind us that life goes on. That we are all part of the circle of life. They really are a necessity not an extravagance. And besides, sometimes you just need something to focus your gaze on while the organ is playing.

The healing power of flowers is hard to explain, until you've experienced it. But I will say this- when there are floral tributes at a funeral, memorial or celebration of life, the world is a brighter place. We have done a variety of tributes this week, and each has been special and individual to the person being remembered, ranging from a deerskin in the casket piece for the hunter; and balloons with stars and light, cloudy flowers for the infant. We're honored to be included in people's lives this way, because we believe that our service helps people who are grieving.

People don't always remember who was at the funeral, but they do remember who sent flowers, food or cards, and it's something important to them. So next time one of your friends, neighbors, co-workers or acquaintances has a death in their family, be sure to acknowledge it-- with a card, a simple "I'm so sorry for your loss," or a bouquet of flowers. Not only will YOU feel better for acknowledging it, the bereaved person will be touched.

Keep blooming, everybody.