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What are you doing to foster beauty in the world? What could our lives be like if each of us focused on beautiful ideas, memories and objects, and quit obsessing about mayhem and the economy?

Here, then, is our top 5 for the rest of 2008:

1. Help yourself by helping others. This could be as basic as remembering the "forgotten" people with a cheery blooming violet, a plate of cookies or a sincere "how are you today."

2. See the best. Let the last of the housework or lawn trimming go, and enjoy yourself. A vase full of Orchids, Lilies, or Roses will go a long way to improving your holiday spirit.

3. Take moments for yourself. It's OK to stand still for a minute and just breathe. A few blooms in the room you spend the most time in will help you be more compassionate at work and in your daily life-- choose electric blue Volkenfreidan for a bright blast of color, or Paperwhite Narcissus for good smells

4. Let the kids help. Yeah, it takes longer, but what an opportunity to share your life skills-- let them see how you talk yourself into a better place, let them be a part of your kindness and goodwill toward all. Let them choose the holiday flowers for the neighbors, or their teacher, and let it be their choice, even if they choose something you don't care for-- make sure you talk about budget before turning them loose.

5. Talk yourself up. Choose one aspect of yourself or your life that you really, really like; and when things get tough today, remind yourself of that one thing. It's OK to toot your own horn, and whatever good you can cling to for the day will improve your mood. So will the last bunch of bi-colored sunflowers-- their warm yellow and red will help you remember that the sun will soon return.

Each of us has gifts to share. Ours happens to be making beautiful things-- yours may be different. But don't discount your talents, just because they're not the same as someone else's. You don't know who counts on seeing your cheery smile every morning, or who looks forward to your sense of humor. Just do your best to see the world in a better place, and we all will be. Happy Holidays, everyone.